Community Memorial Garden

(Name to Be Announced)

“This garden will help people remember, reflect, and find moments of peace as they navigate life after loss.”

Each year, Widowhood Real Talk With Dr. Tina gathers the community for a Butterfly Release Ceremony at 550 East Little Creek Road, Norfolk, VA, a moment to remember loved ones and honor the journey through grief. In this same space, the Community Memorial Garden is now taking root. What has long been a place of remembrance will soon become a permanent sanctuary for reflection, healing, and hope for the entire community.

Butterflies symbolize transformation and remembrance during community butterfly release events connected to the Memorial Garden.

A Memorial Garden for Reflection, Remembrance, and Healing

Garden Site

Living Destiny Church www.livingdestiny.org has designated the land for the garden to support the development of a community memorial space. While located on church property, the memorial garden is a separate project created and managed by Widowhood Real Talk With Tina.

This partnership allows the community to benefit from a dedicated place of remembrance and reflection.

The Memorial Garden will feature pollinator-friendly plants that support butterflies and other beneficial wildlife.

Community leaders and design partners review landscape plans for the future Memorial Garden.

Landscape Design

The memorial garden concept and drawings were developed by:

Painted Fern Nature-Inspired Design

Painted Fern specializes in creating landscapes that blend natural beauty with intentional spaces for reflection and connection with nature.

Design elements focus on:

• Natural walking paths
• Quiet seating areas
• Native plantings
• Pollinator-friendly landscaping
• Spaces designed for reflection and remembrance

Contact Information:

1716 Pleasure House Road #105
Virginia Beach, VA 23455

www.paintedfern.net

Landscape design plans guide the development of pathways, seating areas, and native plant spaces throughout the garden.

About Widowhood Real Talk With Tina

The memorial garden is an initiative of Widowhood Real Talk With Tina.

Since 2022, the organization has supported individuals navigating grief through:

• Monthly grief support meetings
• Community events
• Educational conversations through the podcast
• Retreat experiences for widows
• Online grief awareness initiatives

The memorial garden expands this mission by providing a physical place for remembrance and reflection within the community.

Measuring and preparing the garden site to bring the Memorial Garden vision to life.

Planned Garden Elements

The garden design includes features intended to support quiet reflection and natural beauty.

Planned elements may include:

• Walking paths for peaceful movement
• Benches and seating areas
• Native plant gardens
• Seasonal flowers
• Pollinator habitats supporting butterflies and birds
• Designated areas for memorial markers or tributes
• Gathering space for small remembrance ceremonies

Specific design details will continue to evolve as the project develops.

The future site of the Community Memorial Garden located at Living Destiny Church in Norfolk.

Community and church leaders collaborating to support the development of the Memorial Garden.

Honor a Loved One in the Garden

The memorial garden will include opportunities for individuals and families to honor and remember loved ones through dedicated garden elements.

Community members will be able to sponsor features within the garden as lasting tributes. These sponsorships help support the development and care of the garden while creating a meaningful place where memories can live on.

Planned sponsorship opportunities may include:

Memorial Pavers
Engraved pavers placed along the garden pathways, allowing visitors to walk among the names and memories of those being honored.

Tribute Trees
Trees planted within the garden in memory or honor of a loved one symbolize life, renewal, and an enduring legacy.

Garden Bench Dedications
Benches are placed throughout the garden, providing a peaceful place for visitors to sit, reflect, and remember.

Garden Feature Sponsorships
Larger garden elements such as landscape features, plant collections, or gathering spaces that support the overall beauty and purpose of the memorial garden.

These tributes may be dedicated in memory of a loved one, in honor of someone special, or as a family legacy gift.

A quiet moment during a butterfly release reflecting the spirit of remembrance and healing the garden will offer.

Interested in Sponsoring a Tribute?

Join Our Sponsor Interest List Today!

If you would like to learn more about sponsoring a memorial element within the garden, please contact:

Widowhood Real Talk With Tina
Email: wrtwtevents@gmail.com

Our team will share additional details about sponsorship and dedication opportunities as the garden project progresses.

Each memorial tribute helps support the development and ongoing care of the garden, ensuring this space remains a place of reflection, remembrance, and healing for the community.

Widowhood Secret Santa Program Application

Step 1 of 2

Bringing Joy & Support to Widowed Families

This application is open to all widows and widowers with children between the ages of newborn to 18 years old. Special needs children over the Age of 18 are also eligible.

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Child(ren) Information

Do you have a special needs child over the Age of 18?(Required)
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Please share a little about your situation, what this program would mean to you, and any special circumstances.
What Type of Support Would Be Most Helpful?(Required)
  • All gifts will be handled through your Amazon Wish List link.
  • A completed consent form must be submitted for consideration with this application.
  • Nominations will be announced on September 1st.

Walk For Love 2025

Support grief awareness and Walk For Love in style. Proceeds help fund free grief support programs. Merchandise is available now, with new batches printing every 15 days — so order early to ensure you receive your items before the August kickoff on August 3,  2025

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- Order early to wear your gear for Walk For Love in August!

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Perfect for walking during the event or repping all year long.

Mental Health Walkathon to provide encouragement and inspiration for the grieving struggling with depression and isolation.

During the Walkathon, we walk together, united in our mission to support mental health. From August 3 - 9, 2025 we encourage you to walk one mile daily. Share your journey by posting a picture on your favorite social media platform with #WRTWT #WALKFORLOVE, and let’s inspire others to join us.

Funds from the Walkathon will allow Widowhood Real Talk With Tina to conduct an Annual Grief Garden and a Butterfly release ceremony and provide participants journals & pens.

Three ways to participate

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Make your pledge, 1-mile daily day August 4 – 10, and post #WRTWT #WALKFORLOVE: https://app.99pledges.com/fund/walkforlov

To Start your pledge team, email widowhoodrealtalk@gmail.com for details.

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